Breastfeeding...

I recently took care of a baby that was being formula fed from birth; my first experience as of yet. All the mothers and babies that I have cared for are breastfeeding, at least so far. It’s very strange to me. The more I am around mothers and babies, the more I do not understand formula feeding at all. The difference between a formula fed baby and breast fed baby is just obvious and sad in my opinion. It is a very small percentage of people that are not physically able to breastfeed (less than 0.5%). But, many women in this country choose not to breastfeed, not even to try it. Don't you want to try them out and see what they are for? It blows my mind. This mother has chosen to formula feed all of her children thus far; this was her third little girl. All of her children have had terrible colic and reflux (this is just a no-brainer). I can't believe the mother wouldn't just try it for her children’s sake. Of course, I never actually voice my feelings on this, but my feelings have become very strong because I have seen the difference in health, and in motherbaby bonding. When I come into the room of a formula fed baby they are usually lying in their cradle, breastfed babies are usually being held. Formula fed babies are often sent to the nursery for the night (and many nurses enjoy the formula fed babies because they can feed them and mother them-- that’s a whole 'nother post for another time).

Its funny too that it feels like you can't talk about breastfeeding versus formula feeding. It’s off limits like religion, sex, and politics. Doctors will use scare tactics if you choose not to vaccinate, but often nothing is said if a mother chooses not to breastfeed and the health consequences are just as serious. Formula fed babies are more likely to die before their 3rd birthday; shouldn't we be able to talk about this?

Anyway, I worked up the nerve to ask this mother if she had breastfed any of her children (in a very nice, unassuming way). She said "no. I've never felt comfortable with 'that." She added that her sister breastfed her children, but that she was 'different' and they did things that she didn't agree with. She said her sister loved it, but it just wasn't for her. I asked her if she got very sore when her milk came in and she said yes. She said that on that third day she always second guessed her choice when the baby is crying and her breasts are full...

I can't imagine completely denying your own instincts. I feel like these formula fed babies are cheated for many reasons and they don't have a choice. I feel like these mothers are cheated because they don't have the confidence or support or education to choose to do what’s best for their own health and their baby's health.

One Year Down...

And only one to go! I am officially done with my 3rd year of nursing school... I can't even explain how ecstatic I am about that. It seems impossible that I only have one year left. People warned me that it would be really hard-- terrible in fact, but I made it through the worst of it. Next year is supposed to be easier, we'll see. I will also be the first person in my immediate family to have a Baccalaureate, which is also pretty awesome.

News: U.S. Newborn Survival Rate Ranks Low

Just saw this on yahoo news this morning-- we rank really low in infant mortality and nobody can understand why with all our technology. I propose it is because of our technology. In countries where midwives are the main providers for perinatal care there is better outcomes, I mean, this isn't rocket science! Columbia and Vietnam and Sweden are at the top of the list, why is that? The U.S. is at the bottom of the list second to Latvia! Midwives are the primary providers in these countries and breastfeeding is the norm. Check out the new report for yourself: Report2006

What it's all about...

I had the priviledge to attend one of the most beautiful births I have seen so far last night. I don't remember ever seeing a couple so loving and supportive of each other. And the really surprising thing is that it was their fourth baby! This was also their first out-of-hospital birth and it was perfect! Mom caught the baby herself and I have never seen a baby breastfeed like such a champ! And no hospital food afterwards...

Birth of a blog...

Much less painful than a baby I presume. I know that I don't have time for this, but I feel the need anyway. I am not a writer, nor am I good at spelling or grammar. On this blog I will share what I know, or more like, what I think I know and what I learn. Feel free to comment or yell- whatever the case may be. I hope that this will at least be amusing to someone, even if its only me.